That would make it far more difficult, far more painful. To actively try to kill family, but at the same time, corruption had such a hand. How much of it can be wholly laid at Josie's feet?

"You'd be surprised what siblings can forgive." His voice is quiet, but genuine, spoken from the side of a brother who had to forgive a great deal. He forgave Sansa for her choice that nearly got him killed (that absolutely got hundreds of men killed). "I've done things I didn't think I could live with." didn't want to live with. "There'll come a point where you have to choose to keep fighting. And that choice is only yours to make."

He made his on the battlefield.